Wine&Unwind

Bryant, AR, United States

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My husband parents had to work and when they left them home, they expected them to act as if they had sense. For the most part they did, but they still did shit. Not all kids are a reflection of their parents..i should be worse than I am if that were true and my husband and his brother would have never been in the court system (juvie). Ijs

If they're saying it's public records, where's the lie? He kept telling Tasha he gave her proof. Where's the lie? 

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Patricia Bailey this has happened to plenty of men and that's why some divorced get drug out for years. 

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Naming anything after someone does not equal ownership. The name can always be changed, if need be. 

I would definitely name a business after my mother in law. There's some people who gives more to you than your biological mother or father. It's called honoring someone. I would not think that naming anything after my husbands mother would mean it's his business and I know he would not try to take ownership of it or lay claim to what I built because it's his mother's name. I guess that's what makes people different. I wouldn't try to hurt him in a divorce and vice versa. We would always think about the benefit of the kids and how our actions touches them. 

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Yall saying "his daughter shouldn't be fighting that minor like that".. fighting her like what? Please tell me what she did exactly? I watched a video yesterday of a teenager knocking an adult out. I absolutely refuse!

"You the adult" my ass. If i can see photos or videos of her just beating that child's ass.. i will feel different. No one knows who attacked who, who was the aggressor first, or anything. Yall hear the age and go crazy. Knowing damn well if a child attempted to attack you, you wouldn't just sit there like, "this teenager can do whatever he or she wants, because they're only 14". (Not saying the teen attacked her sister). But simply stating that yall lying, fake, and want a reason to be mad at the man and his daughter. Trying to justify that woman's behavior and actions, after the fact. She wanted a reason to leave and she did.. but everything else is not necessary.

You can leave without being vengeful and trying to destroy the other. 21 or 31, his child is his child as well and there is boundaries on that level as well.

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It is one think to go about things the correct way and this happening to him was karmic.. but when you are winning based off lies and deceit.. that's different! How can anyone applaud this behavior? Being a married woman, I could never! My children live their father and in spite of what him and I had going on (if this were my situation).. i would go about things right. To show my 6 daughters how to carry themselves and handle situations with dignity, integrity, and respect will ALWAYS come above hurt feelings, greed, revenge, and hate. And, my husband showing them what a good man looks like and how they should be treated.

While showing our 5 sons what a woman who truly loves you looks.

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It is too easy for women to not blame women when they are wrong. Try to find everything to pick apart on the man side , while clapping for the woman who have no regards to their children or anyone else who may be affected by their behavior.

"He seems like this"

"He seems like that"

"He probably like this"

"He probably like that"

Things the womn hadn't even said or accused him of.. but still can't see past their own bitterness. He may have been all of this things in their marriage, but it does not make what she's doing okay. If the rules were reversed, I would feel the exact same.

I would too! She's showing the type she is.

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