***From my desk in Pollyanna World 🌎***

I attended my 1st zoom meeting tonight on the topics of marriage and relationships, and I must say I thoroughly enjoyed it. It was amazing to hear different perspectives on the pros and cons and how everyone views the roles that both men and women play. It was insightful, thought-provoking, and at times, sad to hear the trials and tribulations that many of us are going through. I enjoyed the different experiences and the way some have drawn their lines in the sand and know exactly what they want and won’t tolerate anything less. There was a lesson and knowledge for everyone at every stage of our lives. We were honest, and that was the beauty of it all. I won’t lie and say it’s not past my self-imposed bedtime, but it was worth attending it, and I look forward to more in the future. I know that we come for the gossip, but this was truly about building community and learning each other as winos. My greatest takeaway was to be thankful and grateful for my marriage. It was humbling and gave me appreciation for all that I have. This zoom taught me to not take for granted what my husband and I have worked hard to achieve. I don’t think that I would survive this new age of dating, so I’m thankful for all of you that participated tonight. Thanks again Okiemute Esiekpe for ensuring that my behind attended, and thank you beautiful Winos for your vulnerability and honesty. My continued hope is that EVERYONE finds the companion of their heart’s dreams in whatever form that may take. Stay encouraged and know that you ARE the blessing!!