ChaChi

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A A I had to give myself a moment to ponder bc I knew it was more I wanted to say. Pinky is responsible for the children she had yes; however, we have to remember that life is not black and white. There is always nuance to every situation. 🍷 If she had children back to back, that means she was getting pregnant while she was still postpartum. When you’re postpartum, your nervous system is in survival mode: fight or flight. When your brain is in survival mode, it shuts down executive function, meaning you are living moment to moment (in sheer survival) and not considering future factors. 🍷 She was in a more vulnerable state, and instead of her husband taking a lead role and saying hey, I’m going to give my wife some time, he made the choice to keep making babies. 🍷 It’s still giving he’s sabotaging her or trying to conquer/humble her. When a man is trying to humble a woman, getting her pregnant is his best move.

11 May 15:06

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I get that part, too.

Oh! And I was a successful lash artist with high end clients (surgeons, professors, attorneys, real estate agents, news anchors, etc), and I had to stop bc I developed allergies to the base ingredient in lash adhesive. I transitioned to nails and had to stop bc I didn’t realize that the chemical was in all beauty products. That’s crazy to think that it could be intentional bc they know Black women do well in the beauty industry.

It’s crazy being from the 305, and I hadn’t caught wind of Geisha. Thoroughly enjoyed this interview while I meal prepped. Down the line, bring her back Tasha! 💜

The way he just casually came with that Bow Wow wine. I bet all the Winos had the same expression like, “Say what now?” 😂😂😂 He has a big heart, and I like the work he’s doing. There are programs out there for domestic violence survivors, too, and he is right about having to jump through many hoops for resources.

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Oh no 😩

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She had just started talking about Rihanna and ASAP, and it just cut off 😩

Hey Peaches I’m going to email you now for the Telegram link from Cha’s Beauty Charms.