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15 Aug 14:39

Girl after year 15, husbands will zonk out on you like nyquil with a sleeping pill when they know you're serious about the "talk". After year 25, you just pinch their a$$ awake and make your point... Then YOU turn over with a chastity belt on, and go to sleep in peace!

15 Aug 14:32

And yet women are supposed to show grace, not complain, and keep quiet about abuse at the hands of loved ones. Women are CHASTISED for writing poetry, speaking on platforms, and occupying space. We're being told that states lowering the legal, sexual age of majority to the age of 14/15 across the country at the behest of men, is normal. Or other so-called women putting females down for staying when they don't have brothers, mothers, fathers, hell FAMILY to swoop in, it's their own fault for overly sensitive men? Phuckery Friday can't get here fast enough today. Sometimes when you see someone l🤣 to keep from😭, there's a story that will break another person behind their smile. Pollyanna's CHOOSE to be happy every day our Creator sends! Tasha K that airbrushed t-shirt would be dingy from age before a body would be found with an alibi on deck!!

Choking! 🤣 😂

The content creator that has been on Tory Lanez side dragging Meagan Thee Stallion so bad that she got Roc Nation's money/lawyers to sue. Hope that helps.

15 Aug 11:13

Tasha K and Cheick can you do a series or documentary on THIS?! There are some of us that are being tossed aside and ignored in this new healthcare model. We are being broken and no matter how loud we advocate, our voices are being silenced. Our testimony is deserving and worthy. We need our people for real.

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15 Aug 11:05

I'm literally crying with this baby girl and praying feverishly for her. I wish I had the answer for her because I too live in the south. I learned very early on that no matter the amount of pain, I could NEVER show it. My family and I thought I was finally getting the surgery for my neck (I have a dystrophy with degenerative bone disease), only to be told last week the approval was reversed. The only thing they offered was the surgery to remove an inflamed, infected lymph node in my armpit. So every day, it has to be unpacked and repacked with gauze... Down to almost my breat bone. I said all that to say this: My feeling is that in this climate, where our whole medical history has been uploaded to a government website, they're using AI/doctors to determine who they feel is worthy of quality of life services. My suggestion is that if she can control how she expresses her pain, they're more willing to give her the medication to get ahead of the pain. They'll then send her home with a 'script for at least 3-4 days of oral pain relief. Once that happens, while she still has some form of pain control, find a family member in a 💙 state who is willing to assist with housing and she needs to go on "vacation" and then if she should so happen to have a health emergency, take her to the nearest hospital THERE! Her insurance should cover the emergency out of state so long as you call them on the way to the hospital, or have the financial aid department of the hospital contact her state insurance.

I have personal stories that will blow your mind at the lengths some southern hospitals will go to once they term you as a drug addict. Although your blood work can and does disprove that theory. I HATE to tell this young lady to try and control how she voices her pain. It's awful, traumatic, and shouldn't be necessary for ANYONE, but that's where we are now! I recently went to the hospital with my pain level so high that my blood pressure was 250/184, but I knew better than to make a whimper or allow a tear to fall. And once they saw the inflammatory response I was going through from my blood work, I was sick to hear their words of "praise" for how well I conduct myself in the face of my multiple health conditions and how I'm such an "inspiration" for them because I keep going and defying the odds... Especially when all I really wanted to do was beat the ish out of all of them for their condescending comments. It very much feels like a pat on the head, but the alternatives they CAN, and will come up with, is far worse! (That's another story, too)

I pray she receives the care she deserves, and not what she's gotten thus far.

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15 Aug 10:14

Say what now? There's an area of study that deals in JUST trauma? The differences in generations and what's known/available always hits me like a ton of bricks. My generation is still fighting the taboo of it all. I wish someone would cover that.

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15 Aug 10:06

That's an excellent question. I think when you and your therapist come to the consensus that you have addressed all your past trauma and are implementing those tools consistently to diffuse problems that come up in the present. I don't know for sure because I haven't got "over" yet.

Was there no woman in his orbit that wasn't following the end of the rainbow to find his lucky charms and pot o' gold? 🤔 Her defense is shot to hell. She needs to settle and file bankruptcy or do that in whatever order that gives her the most favorable outcome!!

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I'm almost 5'10, and before I got married 30 years ago, my former boyfriend was around 5'4. You'd be surprised at how perfect that 'fit' turned out to be without sounding too vulgar... And I'm talking about height comparison (I bet your mind went to size didn't it? Although, that was on point too 🤣) He taught me not to discriminate. Great things can definitely come in smaller packages. 👍🏾