Happy13th birthday to my first born Harmone syncere

It won't let me change her pic trust I don't play any games that pic is not cute nor is it ok

Hey y'all my oldest young wino will be turning 13 Saturday. She think she is grown lol jk jk she is really a sweetheart. Anyways I'm trying to figure out what to do for her birthday? Normally she wants a party but she asked for seafood and a sleepover at a resort. Which is fine but I'm use to throwing a party so my question is should I throw her a party or just accept the fact that she is getting older and respect her wishes let me know! I feel like y'all niece is trying to grow up to fast.also ps it won't let me change her pic