Yorda

The question is for the woman who wrote the post, fyi.

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I didn’t even question if she was married. This a good point. Are you married?

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Tequila Davis Thank you 😊

10 Mar 11:24

A conversation is necessary but you must first talk with yourself. Shifting a ten year behavioral pattern will be an adjustment better managed with transparency and honesty. Why do you want to stop paying bills? What variables have changed? Will it help to allocate household responsibilities as an alternative to paying bills? Could you possibly adjust the financial contributions to another percentage- for example: 60 to 40, 70 to 30, 80 to20? Are these your personal beliefs or are you being subjected to suggestive programming? If he doesn’t agree, what are you alternative options?

No one can tell you what to do bc we don’t know the full spectrum of your marriage and the prior agreements you made with your husband but you can certainly adjust the terms and agreements. I think you should really sit with yourself and ask all the questions you need, to get a full understanding of why you agreed initially and why you’re deciding to change. This is a partnership so it will help to think about it from his perspective as well without bringing up other women and marriages as a supporting argument. Hope this helps! ♥️

05 Jan 19:15

Omg! Look how gorgeous Tantu is 🥹. Took her whole daddy’s face but that’s your smile, Tasha!

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05 Jan 17:13

You spoil us! 🥰

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Tasha, I really admire how you have this amazing ability to shift someone’s emotions from negative to positive using humor. The tupperware comment helped her snap out of the emotional effects of the betrayal she was describing. It’s like you’re a natural emotional alchemist!

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02 Jan 16:50

Winoween!

18 Dec 15:12

Lol. The itch is real.

Whatever the reason may be, it’s important to give her grace. Tasha has a solid work ethic so when there’s inconsistencies, history has shown us it’s usually out of her hands.

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